Capturing Happiness ;

What exactly is Love?

I'm given so much to reflect on these few days.

Relationships are bound to meet problems,

problems that will torture you and give you your worst heartache.

But what can we do to avoid it?

First, is to of course, be totally honest with one another.

After all, how can a relationship be built on secrecy and lies?

And then, when you complain about something in your relationship,

you have to think, are you being reasonable? Or pure outrageous?

Guys, girl are sensitive creatures that expect a lot from you.

So please please, be as understanding as you can.

From her throwing tantrums, to her making a fuss out of something,

or even when she gets mad at you cause you should have done something,

but instead didn't do anything about it.

Girls expect their boyfriends to know what they're going through, and what they're thinking.

Hence they get mad at tiny details in your relationship.

Girls, guys are not your toys! They have feelings too! They feel hurt too.

Don't make everything about yourself, because relationships are about two people, not just you. And please don't go around complaining about little things or finding a single dust on the whiteboard edge. Your boyfriends are not you, they can't read minds like Edward Cullen does. You have to be understanding to them as well!

And hello, when you sad, your boyfriend is there for you. Then when your boyfriend sad leh! Are you there for him? Or do you just humour him and then go on about yourself? Guys are sensitive when it comes to relationship as well. Just because they always put on a strong font doesn't mean they can't break down and cry. That's why they need girlfriends don't they? So that they know there's someone there for them when they are about to collapse. You need your boyfriend to give you a sense of security. Hello? Has it ever occur to you, your boyfriend might need it to?

In conclusion, try to put yourselves into each other shoe.

Will you like what you are doing, have done or are going to do?

Love isn't something to enjoy when you have it.

Love is something you need to cherish and work on it after you get it.

Love is like a helium balloon.

Grab it too tight, it might burst right in your chest.

Grab it too loosely, it might fly out of your embrace.

Grab it too carelessly, it might burst when it comes into

contact with sharp objects during the journey of Love.

♥